Many of the signs of suicide are obvious - talking about killing one's self or "ending the pain" are generally huge warning signs. Almost everyone is aware of these signs of suicide. However, many of the signs of suicide are either not known or are dismissed as attention-getting. It is important to keep in mind that yes, the person is trying to get attention.
Most Concerning - get help immediately
Concerning - be sure to talk to them
Possible development - any of the signs of depression:
It is important to keep in mind that yes, the person is trying to get attention. These are some of the most common signs of suicide. However, it is also important to keep in mind that any unwarranted change in behavior, even a positive one, is a possible cause of concern. A friend suffering from depression for months and suddenly becoming carefree for no reason is not necessarily a cause for rejoice - it could represent him/her becoming set on suicide. It might seem silly to ask why someone is feeling happy, but the answer might concern you to take further action.
Most Concerning - get help immediately
- Talking about death lightly
- Talking about ending it
- Giving away possessions (rare)
- Not planning for future events
- Suddenly not caring (especially about things which they used to care about - grades, appearance, etc.)
Concerning - be sure to talk to them
- Asking vague questions "If I left, would people care?"
- Self-harm, eating disorders, or other harmful behaviors
Possible development - any of the signs of depression:
- Poor self-worth
- Lack of interest in usually interested activities
It is important to keep in mind that yes, the person is trying to get attention. These are some of the most common signs of suicide. However, it is also important to keep in mind that any unwarranted change in behavior, even a positive one, is a possible cause of concern. A friend suffering from depression for months and suddenly becoming carefree for no reason is not necessarily a cause for rejoice - it could represent him/her becoming set on suicide. It might seem silly to ask why someone is feeling happy, but the answer might concern you to take further action.